A very dramatic experience

Something happened to me yesterday...which don't make me feel very good. I always thought such things only happen in dramas but it happened in real life too.

Actually the story supposed to end but forgiving me decides to carry on the "friendship"...

I have more or less forgotten the ambiguous relationship with him and decides to catch up just as friends do after 5 months. So we actually planned to meet up yesterday. Before the meet up, he actually suggested to go swimming after dinner which i objected. I don't feel good swimming with him, when i have not seen him for 5months and it is very troublesome bringing all my toiletries and stuff...(This was because i thought he wanted to swim like maybe the condo areas in town)...So he was like ok that we skip swimming. Then towards the meet up time at 7 plus, he sms me that he will pick me up in Bugis area since i would be there settling something. Things start to go sour after that...he sms again,"you really never bring your swim wear ah, i'm at gallery hotel and there is a pool bar here. Actually i want to take a nap, so maybe you come over to find me here."

To the gals: How do you feel when a guy whom you have not met for some time ask you to go HOTEL to swim, and that you have to look for him instead? (I feel extremely weird and scared, what is he trying to do? & I keep emphasizing i do not want to swim already)
To the guys: Would you ever ask a gal to go to the Hotel to look for you and swim when it is like 5months since you last met? Shouldn't it be just a normal dinner date to talk and catch up?

so, instead of fetching me, he actually want me to go to gallery hotel to find him...I was not very much affected yet but i dislike the idea of going there myself. So i asked him jokingly if he is suntanning anot (cos take nap wat) , and added that i am not interested to go to the hotel to meet him and asked if we can eat elsewhere. He replied," i have a room here and i am lazy to drive over, so i thought we can just eat here at the hotel. "
The thought of having a hotel room there make me wonder even more, maybe i am just being too imaginative but since it is supposed to be just a simple meet up, why is there a room involved???

I replied," since you are tired, we should meet another day."
I cannot stand the idea of going to the hotel alone...it is like going to the tiger's den...

He replied," No i'm ok. Thought we already said to have dinner, pool dip in which you can just sit by the pool side bar and drinks? Y change the meet up? Ok i 'll pick you up at 7 then."

So i thought everything is ok...he will come fetch me...Then the most drama one is the last message, he sms," so you really don't want to come here by yourself, or i pay for your cab la!"
Hey, what does he think i am? Am i not important enough even as a friend? Somemore gallery hotel and bugis is not very far. And am i not capable enough to pay for my cab fare? I feel that he is like looking down on me like that. Miss Jadebottle has her pride and principles lo!!! If i am to go there myself by cab, do you know what it feels like? It is like a bloody social escort!!! I'm sorry, i just cannot help thinking this way. I feel that as a friend, at least meet me first before going for dinner together, not "cheapening" myself by going there alone...(actually if meet at a crowded convenient place,i don't mind and i won't feel so funny,but going to the hotel...?)

I was very pissed already! I replied," I am not very happy with your last sms. I can always make my own way down and pay for my own transport. I have no mood to meet you now. You go find your friends ba!"

His reply is damm sarcastic," But you sounded like its like that. Anyway i don't like to drive around that area because its very jam. I can have dinner by myself...No big deal..."

I stopped all my messages with him. My patience has reached the limit. I do not know if i did the right thing by giving him the Boeing 747 this time or if i imagined too much and was too paranoid. My dear friends, what do you all think?
Anyway from this incident, i know he can just disappear from my life from now. I don't even want to have a friend like him. So what if he is rich and driving a black Audi TT, he is just an AH SIA spending his parents' hard earned money...Oh my what a JERK!

不要以为你有一些臭钱就可以为所欲为，我呸， 呸，呸！！！